Sunday, July 4, 2010

Day Fifty-Four




Dear children whom we now know and love,

Tuesday we leave. After eight weeks of occasionally frenzied bathtimes, kisses smeared with beans and garri, and sweet cuddle-filled nights, we are very sad to say goodbye. It's been a privilege to get to know you each everyday. The way the older kids look after the younger ones and how the little kids take care of each other, you truly function as a family. Thank you for letting us be a part of your family for these past two months. We are grateful for every moment, whether rimmed with tears or laughter, spent with you; your friendship is a blessing we'll always remember. Know that we will always hold you in our hearts and will pray for opportunities, protection, and favor in your lives. But most of all, we will pray that you know clearly the Lord's love and grace all your life.

We love you so so much and miss you already.

love love love,
Chelsea and Megan

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Things We'll Miss

In light of our coming departure from Ghana, Megan and I have decided to share a few of the things we'll miss most when we get back in the States.

- Having an audience of children while we bath (and occasionally shooing away a few toddlers)
- Picking 4-5 oranges straight from the tree and eating them all within 20 minutes
- Chasing goats out of our kitchen
- Thought-provoking, life-changing conversations over egg sandwiches and Milo
- Picking bugs out of our hot water
- Comparing Kwashie hickies with other volunteers
- Being gross by Ghanaian standards (bathing every 3 days as opposed to twice a day)
- Telling our names to the same 35 children on the street every day
- Being in a land of passionate footballers during the World Cup
- Rice...just kidding
- Groundnut cake...seriously
- Being disappointed every time we bath by the realization that what we thought were tan lines on our feet were actually dirt
- Listening to Rasta/Christian radio every day
- Waiting hours in the internet cafe in hopes that the lights will soon come back on (as we just did)

Hope all is well. Stay tuned for our final post of all time next Monday. (ahhhh!!!) Also, be sure to support the Ghana Black Stars this Friday, July 2nd, as they play Uruguay. Victory!

Megan and Chelsea

Monday, June 28, 2010

Day Fourty-Nine

One of the main responsibilities of the volunteers here to keeping an eye on the health status of the kids. This week has been extra crazy as far as illness goes, filled with vomit, paracetamol, and many many trips to the clinic. I think I've cleaned more bodily fluid this week than I have in my entire life. As one of our fellow volunteers, Lauren, says "when it rains, it pours," which couldn't be more true of the sickness that's been passing through Christian Refuge. Zenabu, Rahael, Kwashi, Barbara, Mishek, Jonas, Ernestina, and Ezekiel have all been unhealthy with various problems and have acquired a mass of medicines which are imposing quite a challenge for us volunteers to keep up with.

Here's how a typical clinic visit goes:

1. Gather insurance cards and medical information for the given sick child.
2. Gather given sick child.
3. Escort given sick child to the clinic a little less than one mile away.
4. See the clinic receptionist grimace when she sees you because she knows you don't have an MOH card for your given sick child.
5. Wait for several hours with given sick child on your lap as all of Bawjiase's unwell wait to be seen by the one doctor.
6. Have given sick child diagnosed and prescribed at least four different questionable medicines, which the volunteer doctor at the volunteer house will promptly tell you are "rubbish" (he's Australian) once you arrive home.
7. Kindly thank the clinic staff and leave with given sick child.

Based on my obtained observances of clinic diagnoses, there is a 4 out of 5 chance that you or your child will be diagnosed with malaria. Have a fever? Malaria. Vomiting? Malaria. Strange bumps on foot? Rapid hair loss? Black tongue? Malaria.

Okay, that might be a bit of an exaggeration, but malarial meds do seem to be the Ghanaian cure-all for any sickness. It's kinda sketchy, but the kids always get better after a few days which gives me partial confidence in their effectiveness, but mainly testifies to the Lord's healing hand on our children here.

Lucky for you, neither Chelsea nor I documented any of the sicknesses this week, so instead I will now insert this picture which is slightly irrelevant to this specific post but does capture the essence of daily life here.



In other news, have you Americans heard about our latest lost to the fantastic Ghanaian Black Stars football team? We certainly have. Worldcup fever is raging strong here. It's super fun to squeeze into the crowded orphanage foyer amidst dozens of eyes glued to the tiny screen. I've never realized the drama of a soccer game until viewing matches with such passionate fans. All of Bawjiase, and probably all of Ghana, shuts down to watch the Ghana matches. Wednesday for the match against some European country which I can't recall the name of right now, Chels and I painted Ghana flags and black stars on the kids' faces in support of the game that evening... unfortunately they last that one. Defeat hung in the air for several days here and discouraged any hopes of winning "against Obama" this past Saturday. So when the Black Stars victory was finalized all of Ghana burst into cheers. People danced in the streets, gave away free stuff, and partied like maniacs all night long. So fun! We're looking forward to the match against Uruguay this Friday. GOOOOO GHANA!



Can you believe Chelsea and I only have eight days left? We certainly can't. We are both excited about coming home and seeing people we love, but saying goodbye to our sweet sweet friends here is going to be very hard. Please be praying for a good last week and for continued protection over Chelsea and I's and the kids' health.

love love love,
Chelsea and Megan

Thursday, June 24, 2010

and more poems



ODE TO JONAS:

Always in his own world,
Never hesitating to shout his thoughts.
Endlessly laughing at his own jokes,
while occasionally wearing pants that fit.
Sometimes kung-fu fighting enemies,
usually in slow motion.
Frequently caught in mischievous schemes,
then often found pouting with sleepy eyes.
Forever a comedian all who will listen;
every day endearing.





AN ACROSTIC FOR AGOGO:

For many years, Frank has been
Referred to as
Agogo.
Never a day has gone by where his cry is not
Known throughout all of Bawjiase.

Don't get me wrong, his creepy, yet lovable, smile and
Open mouth kisses easily outweigh his
Nonstop whine. He's a tiny
Kid with an
Old man heart--always calculating bullying thoughts inside his
Rather large head.

Although he's often
Grumpy, Agogo is
One that is always nice to have around you, since he easily can put a
Grin on anyone's face.
Oh Frank Donkor, you are loved.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Day 41

Day Forty-One:

I should probably start off by telling you guys that this has been a VERY action-packed weekend by Ghanaian standards, which really just means we've been sitting for long periods of time in places other than the orphanage and the volunteer house. What a hard life we live :)

On Friday, Pastor's daughter Amanda came home from school in the middle of the day not feeling very well. She had a high fever a fellow volunteer, Min, and I took her to the government clinic down the road just to have things checked out. Like most kids, Amanda is really afraid of needles, so when she had to have her finger pricked, both of the nurses had to hold her arms and legs. Onlookers might have thought someone was trying to cut off her hand the way she screamed, but she made it through.



Then, in typical Ghanaian style, we sat at the clinic for another 3 hours or so to see the doctor. It's really kind of nice to sit and wait here. There's usually a breeze, and we had biscuits and the Slovenia v. USA match to entertain us.
About halfway through, Megan showed up to bring us bread for lunch. Very nice. All this time, though, I was trying to coax Amanda out of her fear of seeing the doctor, because she most likely wouldn't need an injection. Bad call. The doctor told us she had malaria, which requires a pretty painful shot on the butt. There was quite a lot of kicking and screaming, "Mepowcho, mepowcho!" ("Please, please!"), and the poor child hobbled all the way home. Of course, she's fine now, but it was quite a show.

As for Saturday and Sunday, Megan and I took a trip with all the other volunteers to celebrate beautiful Becca's last weekend in Ghana. We spent the night in Kokrobite, a beach town about an hour from Bawjiase.



The beach was really great, warm water and good weather, but the real draw was the food. We had french fries, pizza, grilled cheese, ice cream, apple pie...quite a bit of good food. We spent the rest of the time relaxing outside with the many other obroni who were enjoying Kokrobite. Even this little trip is making us so much more aware of how little time we have left in Ghana, so hopefully these last couple of weeks won't fly by too quickly.

As for things around the orphanage, we're working on getting a new toilet area built for the kids and adults this week, and Pastor's also working hard with some fundraising organizations in the U.S. for development at the orphanage, so if you could remember to pray for good weather and clear communication, it would be greatly appreciated.

We hope you're all doing well and having wonderful summers wherever you are.

Blessings,
Megan and Chelsea

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Day Thirty-Eight

It's said that a picture is worth a thousand words, so to spare you a boring book to read, today's post will be a few pictures of what's been goin' down recently in B-town.



This is only a portion of market, which is created every Tuesday and Friday. Chels and I go pretty much every market day, either to help shop for groceries for the internet, take care of miscellaneous needs, or simply to give a kid some always loved one-on-one time with a trip to town.




Morning bath time! Rahael snickers in this cold-hearted moment as she refuses to hold the hand of her sister, Barbara.




The lovely ladies we've been working with for the past month (minus a few who have left already).




Zenabu kindly sharing a piece of her orange.




Chelsea and I during the almost daily rain pours that cool off the weather so nicely.




Speaking of rain storms, yesterday a BIG storm blew in during school time. It was quite exciting as all of the school kids piled into the tiny room to take lunch!




Two Saturdays ago we had a Girl's Day. It was so fun to give all the girls foot baths and foot massages and paint their toe nails! What beautiful feet they all had afterward!




I can't even estimate how many many kisses we are blessed with each day. This here is a snapshot of a Kweku kiss.




Kofi playing in the dirt. Life is sweet when the world is your sandbox!




Almost every day Chelsea and I go a several mile baby-on-your-back-walk in the evening. Not only is it nice exercise, but it is also a wonderful time for us to process our thoughts on the day amidst the peace of Bawjiase landscape--we had no idea how beautiful it is here until we started exploring the farm roads behind the orphanage.

Monday, June 14, 2010

Day Thirty-Five

Day 35:

The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer;
my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge,
my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
... he rescued me because he delighted in me.
Psalm 18:2,19

Getting to know these children individually is an overwhelming thing. Each day brings further realization of their detail and unique beauty. Watching thoughts race across their face, seeing them play in quiet by themselves, laying next to them as they sleep--these are all treasures Chelsea and I hold every day. It is amazing to not only know who they are now, but also to know their story. Once orphaned and abandoned, these little lives are all testimonies of our Father's great love and protection! He has rescued these children because he delights in them!

Each day is a day of thankfulness for the mercy these children have been shown. The smiles and laughs and songs and dances our days here are filled with are all reminders of the goodness of our God. Take heart my friends, our God is good! He is faithful and full of love. He sees and He cares.

Blessings!